# Do you think you can hurt my feelings? I’m not technical and I work in tech Source: https://paragraph.xyz/@touchgrass/soft-touch Kiwi News: https://news.kiwistand.com/stories/Do-you-think-you-can-hurt-my-feelings-Im-not-technical-and-I-work-in-tech?index=0x667fd6fc7bf928b480ded374b81f26badc64b8d59aa63d9cc42b2bf7a31cc088389523b5 Submitted by misha on 2024-06-29 UTC, 3 upvotes, 0 comments ## Summary The author, writing as a former worker in a highly curated polo world, argues that tech and crypto depend on a "soft touch" of culture, design and marketing that often goes unrecognized. They say the vibes, panels and content that draw people to web3 apps are the work of people behind the scenes, not just the technology. The newsletter describes itself as focused on surfacing the things that make complex tech worth building, and it links to a list of web3 social projects, art and writing, including Gremlin_bb's rAAVE video and Kate Crawford and Vladan Joler's Calculating Empires. ## Article stills from Gremlin_bb's rAAVE video Before working in crypto I was working in a highly manicured environment. Everything about the spaces that surrounded me had been curated ahead of time, with lots of care and attention to detail. But I actually worked with horses, groomsmen – literal horseshit – in huge fields.The protagonists of it all were men that were raised in the country and that, although they were mostly wealthy, they were not to pursue higher education or explore culture. They were trained from their early days, to ride beautiful, thoroughbred horses and to hit a ball with a mallet, and that was their whole world. If you haven’t guessed it till now, I’m referring to the sport of polo. Yet that space was full of culture, meaning, tradition, and highly curated experiences that made the audience not think or feel anything about the literal horseshit around them at all. When one thinks of polo, you think of elegance and breeziness. Yeah, all of that is constructed. Polo is about riding horses that poop all the time, and dealing with people that because of their upbringing, mostly can’t tie two sentences together. I see lots of parallels between the work that people with soft skills do in tech and the polo industry. You really need to work hard to find elegance and poetry in the tech, and you need to work even harder to make it tasteful, alluring, enjoyable and - dare I say - aspirational. I started my career in crypto in 2017, and while there were some brands that were growing in allure, there was nothing that seemed well-marketed. We’ve evolved so much since then. While some refuse to acknowledge it, it is definitely no longer solely “about the tech”. We have also recognized that “if we build it, they will come” just isn’t feasible. Additionally, competition on who’s going to have the best crypto brand is extremely fierce right now. Yet, the soft touch needed to achieve these ambiances and these brands, is often not recognized. The vibes that drive people to pay attention to your app in a fast growing industry is the soft touch doing its work! And what about those panel discussions about the big picture, the culture, the ideas? Not driven by your high TVL man. It’s still us, the people working behind the scenes every day to make your experiences better. And what about the content that’s getting so much better on web3 social? Still us, strategically bringing people we admire and that we think that will make these spaces better. This newsletter is all about the soft touch - surfacing things that make our sometimes wonky, complex and experimental tech worth the build. "why hasn't web3 social taken off?" the web3 social: Gremlin_bb for rAAVE - this is groundbreaking and up for minting. RC Basilisk hard sounds and killer visuals HAVOC - by Miragenesi, one of my favorite conceptual artists and the co-creator of some of my favorite scavenger hunts, Social Distortion Protocol Jonathan Chomko’s latest artwork - with a little bit of relational aesthetics sprinkled on top - has completed its cycle (CSA reporting on it), being shared across some of the most interesting creators I know <3 The pointless maxi track by Superluminal P3rp’s collage up for collecting The Fake Tomato’s daily doodle More Bimps for the People Gremlin_bb’s second drop - an ode to girls pregaming <3 Guruguruhyena + Princesstuti’s collab DIGI - FuturaDrop’s Orb Club Read and View Writing contest by Lens and Kiwinews in collaboration with t2 Benoit’s in-depth report on the ultimate onchain tamagotchi, FrenPet Enthusiasm is All You Need by Riley has me on a chokehold Bullish on 0xUntitled - a platform by thoughtbois, for thoughtbois Sarah’s sobering take on why web3 Social is yet to be appealing for the mainstream I am so happy to see that crypto people have begun to notice Calculating Empires by Kate Crawford and Vladan Joler (saw it on Kiwi first!!!). This artwork/research piece has been on display at an art center in Berlin and during Berlin Blockchain Week a lot of people went and saw it. Well, guess what? You can now spend your whole weekend away from grass and absorbing this amazing history of tech and power. David Phelps with another reflection on social capital and web3 social The reply guys to Ryan’s post 0xUntitled’s blue chip shitpost The /noteligible club on Orb and Whalecodes memes in it - a place where we can all cope I’m obsessing over the dreamy art being posted in the Imaginary Club on Orb run by Asami! If you love out of this world dream like worlds you want to give it a follow Nameusey has been sharing her beautiful 3D digital fashion renders with us, they are absolutely breathtaking! These nails shared by gracxy are adorable Lens is coming to Tokyo! We’re hosting an event at Café NOX this Sunday - join me, Kay, Asami and many more! RC basilisk, artist Cezar Mocan, artist Artem Ilyn, international grandmaster Ilja Karilampi, artist Miragenesi, artist and software engineer Carina Mera Takeru, cryptoart pioneer in Japan As a closing note - we’re getting closer and closer to heading over to Brussels. And the Avara Soft Touch(™️) will be in full force. If you’re into culture, web3 social and big picture stuff, join us at afk with zkSync and Lens. If you are curious about how DeFi can become future-proof, or topics around governance, cross-chain connectivity, and new open financial instruments, join us at Open Finance Day with Aptos, Uniswap, Chainlink, and Aave. And if you want to have the experience of a lifetime, and to feel like you’re in Ibiza in the 80s (when the vibe was perfect), follow Ronnie to find rAAVE tickets. That’s it for now, see you next week.