The Hiker's Dilemma: how to take care of your tribe

The author argues that the saying "if you stop to let others catch up, don't start walking immediately when they arrive" rests on hidden assumptions that favor slower hikers and treat the group's pace as the only valid norm. Arguing from hiking and physics, the author says the better lesson is that people should choose groups that fit their pace, that fast hikers can scout ahead, and that moving efficiently, like pulling a wagon rather than holding a crate, reduces wasted effort. The piece also makes contested claims about gender, bravery and cowardice, and it presents these as its own views.